Tuesday, February 14, 2017


“Knowing how to be solitary is central to the art of loving. When we can be alone, we can be with others without using them as a means of escape...

“We fear that evaluating our needs
|and then carefully choosing partners will reveal
that there is no one for us to love.

Most of us prefer to have a partner who is lacking
than no partner at all.

What becomes apparent is 

that we may be more interested in 
finding a partner
than in knowing love.”

"To love well is the task
in all meaningful relationships,
not just romantic bonds.”

― bell hooks, All About Love: New Visions

ALL ABOUT LOVE 1 --> http://thankherforsurviving.blogspot.com/2017/02/all-about-love-1.html